Have you ever wonder what you would do If your child gets bullied right under your nose?

To my surprise, I think I resolved it like a school teacher.

It was at a birthday party held at a really huge house with a big garden. All kids were playing heartily! My son had obsession with balls and tracks so he saw this toy he really wanted to play with. That toy was kept under a slide which required some manipulation to retrieve. The doting Daddy did the work.

It was an air pump toy that blows the ball up the channel which will then roll off onto the tracks. Rye was playing with much amusement till a bossy girl came and said, " please put the toy back!"

I knew immediately she was not the owner of the toy coz it was my friend's daughter bdae. I obviously know the bdae girl! I ignored her and then wandered off to chat with my Frds.

My ears caught Rye struggling. I turned ard to see that my hub was snatching the ball away from him with that little girl standing near. She had the other two balls in her hand. I knew my son was bullied. I walked over and stopped Yida. I questioned the girl why she still snatching the only ball Rye is holding when she has two? She replied she wanted the red ball.

I made her exchange one of her balls to get the red one from Rye. Rye gave up the red one and took the green one. But the minute I turned away, she wanted to snatch that very one ball from him again! I walked right in between her and asked her very nicely, " why would a big Jie Jie still wants to take the only ball fr DiDi?" she said she wanted to put it in e machine. I firmly Told her Rye can put in himself.

When rye stopped the ball toy, he went to the slide and there she bullies him by blowing a party toy at him. He dislike the sound yet she didnt stop with Yida repeated telling her. I resolved it.

We left the place and I chided Yida on why he bully his son with her? He said he didn't know what to do.....

I'm very glad and firm on what I have done.
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Twinkling@
11/08/2011 07:06:00 PM