What would you do if your MIL test water by saying "Next time i will learn from my friend to rent out my whole house then stay with you all?''
What would you do if husband and wife were trying to discuss finances then she came in and sat down, trying to interfere?
First statement- Our mutual agreement from the start was if either one of our parent pass away, we will then bring in the lonesome one to stay with us. But his reply to his mom yday was "That's a good idea!" I think the amount of vulgarities that went through my mind could fill up one whole page. How the hell can he say that? Of coz, i noticed his mum peeping at my expression. I interrogated Yida and he told me it's a good idea coz his parents would have an income when they retired. Great! Why can't she rent out a room instead while her two precious sons still give her jia yong? She still get the same amount of money if she rent out the house. Why?? I insisted on the fact that she refused to let her precious son GROW UP or rather she's worried that i cannot baby her son like i do. Of coz i wouldn't want a 26 yr-old grown up, a father to be, to be still baby. I have a HUSBAND not another BIG BABY. I want my SPACE which i am DEPRIVED on ever since we started our relationship.
S.P.A.C.E , P.R.I.V.A.C.Y! Like i canwalk around my house naked when i wish, like i can go braless when i like to, like i can have sex anywhere in MY house!
Second statement- I realised we haven't been managing our finances well. Thus i was breaking down our expenses every month and found some debts we were in. Geez, he has been making comments on how i didn't have enough to save up. But after yday, it's a ''pot calling kettle black'' situation! And when i really got serious into savings, he looked at me with that gleam in his eyes. He told me how he felt loved that i'm managing his money. Ah hem, i didn't feel appreciated or loved. I felt like his MOTHER! I cannot see why a grown up man needs someone to manage his money? If so, why does he even need to grow up and earn his own money??
I.A.M.N.O.T.Y.O.U.R.M.O.T.H.E.R!
We attending SY's wedding on Saturday. As the pastor went on with his speech, he turned gleefully to me when the phase 'wife must obey husband' came into the air. I immediately told him he is not a Christian and deep inside me said "You still have not cleave away from your mother too!'' When i say cleave, i mean independence. I meant finding things YOURSELF and not shouting for your mom when you can't find things. When i say cleave, i do not mean abandon your mother. I meant lead your own life, you have your own family and a new set of expenses to look at! Do i sound like a heartless DIL? I'm sure many DILs out there agree with me.
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Twinkling@
7/13/2009 01:14:00 PM
