How do you know when your bf's mum is getting possessive?

You will know by hearing "She's now more important than me!" during quarrel with her son. And this quarrel arised from picking at small lil things her son do.

You will also know when you hear her say "Why do you need to talk when you two meet everyday?" Why she said that? I'm assumed she's not getting enough attention from her beloved son.

Lastly, "YOU spend most of the time with her for the week!" Good gracious me, i spent more that 50% of the weeek at his place FYI.

When her son decided to cut away her apron strings, she retaliated in the above way vigorously. Screaming at the top of her voice early in the morning. Pretending that i am not in the room where i could hear every single bit of the conversation.

Have i ever been rude to her? Seriously, i wish i could but i can't. I wish i could shaft her the facts on her face that her grown-up son is supposed to set up his own family in future. I wish i could throw the facts at her that I WILL BE the one who spend the rest of the life with him. I wish i could slap the facts right at her face that it's time for her to learn to let go of the control. Tight control i mean. A kind of control where he has to report what time, where and when he's going out or come home. A kind of control where she let out a snort upon hearing us spending on anything we want. A kind of control where she would show contempt if we wanna bring muffin for training and walk at 10ish. I am pretty sure she tot that all the ideas of bringing my pets here and there came from me. She would possibly tot that her beloved son wouldn't have tot of those ideas.

GREAT! How nice to have her! I suggested a breakup last night purely becoz i had enough of her. Sick and tired. It hurted me to see him being helpless, being the ultimate victim. I suggested that he could either allow his mum to continue to do whatever she LOVED to do while i put up with her or simply ignore his mum commandings. He chose the former. It hurted me. He asked if his parents were that wicked? I've no answer for the question.

Several conversations also made me realised how reluctant his mum was to let him move out. When i told her about the unsuccessful application for Punggol Vista, she replied as if we didn't tell her about the ballot.

"GET HOUSE SO FAST FOR WAT?" she exclaimed.

When yida was showing his hope to move out fast, she did it again.

"I never chase you out of the house!" she replied instantly.

Obvious isn't it? That guy just choose to live in oblivion.

For now, i will not make unneccessary visit to his house. I have to bear with the fact that i can no longer see MuFFin as and when i like. Oh, i also have to decrease the meetings with him so that his mum would be happy.

I don't want him to be labelled as 'unfillial' or 'useless'. So it's always about his mum, his mum and his mum.

I so much wished that i can grow evil horns to charge at her! I'm evil deep inside. Super evil. Ultra evil. I'm suppressed for now. I'm upset for now.

Did i do anything wrong to deserve all these?

I just want to break away.

Labels: Rants

Twinkling@
11/01/2007 08:39:00 AM