I was so upset for the few days. I even tear before my sleep on those nights. It was bad. Really bad. I even decided to detach my feelings from him so if anything will to happen, it's easier for me. I treated him pretty coldly as i waited for his talk with his mum or rather parents.

He tested if i was ok enough to tell me the contents of their conversation. On the day of the quarrel, i've actually only heard the aggressive part but missed out the cause of the statement. On that morning, Yida went out of the room to tell him mum that i'm taking mc. Then she started saying we always bring muffin out late at night which was e cause for lacking of sleep blah blah blah. Yida defended me in a harsh tone which triggered anger from both sides. The mum was angry as she was purely out of concern which progressively lead to "she's now more important than me." Yida rebuked saying why his bro gets to talk to his gf till late night without getting the same treatment. And it lead to her saying we meet everyday, practically married. why need to talk till late night? His bro can talk till late night coz they dun see each other often.

Then e parents said out things like we always stay in his room whenever we are at home. But have they tot that i was just trying to avoid his mum's blunt way of speech? Things were made clear btw him and his parents. They have nothing against me. It's just his mum's way of saying things. The controlling part was yida's fault to begin with according to the summary given. If he were to call hm and inform his mum if he's coming home, the mum wun call him. He blamed it at himself for not being responsible enough and thus the chain reactions.

He urged me to give some understanding to his mum for being blunt as it has been with her for 50 over years. To change overnight was not easy. I agreed.For now, i'm glad that i'm not being disliked by his parents or wat so ever. I have been so upset coz i hate to be disliked for no reasons. Well, things may seem to have a complete closure. I will try not to be so judgemental about what his mum say or do. Let's see if such things wun happen.

I really wanna thank Juliana, April, Mandy, Agnes, Jadey, Lynn and Tf for talking to me about it. Be it consoling or provoking my thoughts. It all hellped. Really. So glad to have friends around. =)

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11/02/2007 07:46:00 PM