Just had a chat with koh on msn. Can't believe we actually chatted abt r/s. Guess what he tell me? He had a friend who ROMed one day with his BEAUTIFUL wife. The next day, the frd brought another woman out for gathering. OMFG!! Now tell me, so what if there's a marriage certificate? Infidelity still happens and worse is now u can't break up BUT need to file for divorce-->lawyer fees, more feelings input (we talking abt commitment in MARRIAGE).

Girls, are u sure yr bf is damn faithful? I could say yes for my ex. He's such a homely n faithful person. But he abused me emotionally; petty; take me for granted. Finally did something extreme that blew me off my tolerance limit.

Look at E. He has a gf in TW. Yet, he comes to me.
Look at R. He has a gf, ie, me in sg. Yet......... then come and entreat me for another chance.

Even if yr bf treat u like a total princess. Are you sure he will treat u as well after marriage? Just heard of an example. B4 marriage--> princess. After marriage--> sway cha bo. Wat has the word 'love' become?

I heard so many examples of cheating, mistreating in r/s. My confidence for r/s is minimal. As i said before, guarded. Afraid to get hurt. How to trust guys especially? Like wat april n mandy says, both of them believe that guys do have affairs. But in the first place, when love is created, man n woman belong to one--> one flesh.

U will probably tell me. Why think so much? Just follow the flow and everything will be fine. NO! U mean u gonna plunge n plunge into the deep sea till u knock against the coral? N realise that u can't swim back to the surface? N can't go back to the starting point for another round. Coz the knock on the coral already disrupt yr back tracking. The more u plunge, the longer for u to find yr way back, back to the surface. If u were to ignore the knock n continue to plunge, aren't u afraid to meet another coral which may appear anytime?

Anyone, yes, anyone can say i love u to you. I can say to anyone. I can say i miss you to anyone. I can swear by the stars, moon that i will love you forever. I can promise you i will never cheat. i will let the world know you are my one and only. I will treat u well. I will tolerate all your nonsenses. I will not quarrel with you. I will be there in times of need. In front of the solemniser, you can repeat 'I do, I do' lotsa of times to each other. Haha, then why are there cases of divorce? Why is there a need for marriage counsellor nowadays?

Geez! If not for the chat with koh today, i didn't know i'm at that level. It's bad, very bad. Life is short. I dun wanna live by griefing over a set back in r/s or future r/s. I'm afraid to love.

Twinkling@
4/03/2005 02:45:00 PM